Flirting is all about having fun, and being playful and sexy. If you can do that then you can be a flirting pro.

The essence of flirting is interest. Have you ever flirted with anyone who you don’t want attention from?

The #1 Rule in flirting is EYE CONTACT. If you can’t connect with eye contact, they you can’t connect. You know the old saying, “Eyes are the window to the soul.” No matter how cliché it sounds, it is true. When you give somebody eye contact it lets them know that you are interested.

When you feel interested in someone, do the 3 second rule. This is when you give the person you are interested in eye contact for 3 seconds and then them flash them your most winning smile. This gives them the OK to know that you are interested and to approach you.

For you ladies, Men say that they wish that women would give them a large clue that they are interested in them. So, if you are, give him that clue. Flirt with the eyes. Invite him to come over with that sparkle in your eye.

He might not come over at first because many men are insecure. And, he might not know if you are really flirting with him. Give him some time and space to approach you. But, keep your flirt on!

A lot of people think that flirting makes them look silly. They feel their face beginning to blush, their upper lip shake and their knees tremble. Well, flirting isn’t about being sleek. It’s about being sincere and flirty. Its actually charming if you look a little nervous. Practice makes perfect and flirty.

For some quick tips on Flirting, here are some do’s and don’ts:


  • Take a chance
  • Show your interest
  • Lock eyes
  • Giggle and Tease Sweetly
  • Touch. Brush arm, bump knees
  • Give Compliments to the person you are interested


  • Be Self-Absorbed
  • Overly Sexual
  • Act stupid or as if you are 6 years old
  • Flirt With Everyone
  • Be obscene: Remember what your mother always said, “If you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all.” So, lewd or disgusting gestures, jokes and comments are not welcome
  • Gossip or be negative
  • Whine

So, get yourself out there and get your FLIRT ON!